I am sorry I was referring to XMR - Monero and not XLM Stellar that you asked.
The problem with Stellar is that crypto fanatics don't like it because of the way it is. For example it's from XRPs founders, you can't mine like in others networks and you can freeze the funs on someone else wallet (only assets emitted there), you can't have smart contracts and it's too easy to emit an asset there... Now, I have more than 10k in this coin because of what I mentioned before, not because I think it will go up but because I need it for my business. And about the privacy question, it's not private focused at all.